what you have to do to get the girl you want
Simple, general rules.
(I know some of you that’ve liked me,
so this is more for girls like me than others,
but it should work, in theory.)
Open doors, pull out her chair, hold her hand and kiss it. It’s something to get her attention as well as show her that she’s special to you.
Compliment, compliment, compliment.
Even the ugliest chick has some good points, so tell her how much you like them. Don’t get creepy or rude, but a general thing will work just fine.
Do not stare at other girls.
Obvious “don’t be a dumbass” move, but something one needs to be careful with. Just a good idea not to do it, because it makes her not feel quite so important and lowers her self-esteem–she thinks she has to look like that to impress you.
Find same interest and talk.
Seems easy enough, but it’s hard sometimes. You really need to have something that you both like so you can talk, because girls really like to talk.
Alone time.
As much as you want to hang out with your friends, she wants to as well, but you should always plan a day to hang with your friends and a seperate day to spend quality time with your girl. She deserves it as much as your buds do.
Pay, but don’t over do it.
While some girls do like it when you spend money on them, some don’t. Be careful with this one, since it’s an individual thing. General rule to go by on this one: Split the bill at dinner or pay every other time. Don’t be cheap either with tips, girls will think your cheap period if you do.
Stand up for her.
If something happens to come up when you’re with her, take her side. Sure, if she’s not right, don’t do it, but don’t correct her either. She’s got to make her own choices, but if she picks right, help her follow through. After all, she’d probably do the same for you.
Prove how much she means to you.
Obvious, but she needs you to show it every once in a while. Flowers for no reason, something she likes–like candy or the like–will help her realize that she’s special to you.. Which is the main thing that you want in the beginning.
Commit.
Seriously. If she means so much to you and you really want to stick with it, admit how much you care and see if she feels the same. If not, it was a good run, but if so.. Then you’ve got a keeper. Sure, something still might happen, but you have to prove your worth and that you’re willing to just be with her to get there.
*Now, if you go by this and it fails.. You just frickin’ suck, so don’t blame me. XP
This post was originally from my MySpace blog and the entry can be found here.
This site is works best when viewed with Firefox.
(IE users: Scroll to the bottom of the page for comment form!)
Posted: September 8, 2006 at 4:21 am.Similar posts
Recent posts
Micro Blog Updates: 2009-01-02. / Dragonadopters List! / Dragon Cave: Growth Chart. / Micro Blog Updates: 2009-01-01. / Micro Blog Updates: 2008-12-27. /






